Obey Me!

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Obey Me!

It seems straightforward, and so very simple. But how often do we all struggle to the challenges of obedience? How often are we faced with the need to be obedient to a culture, to a principle, or to use our skills to overcome the hurdles that life throws at each of us? Is it just the slave or submissive who needs to obey a guideline, or does the Master obey standards and criteria? Do we all submit to something at some point, even if we submit to who and what we are, be that a D-type or an s-type?

Obedience: the “atomic fuel” of the D/s and M/s dynamic. We’ll cover striving to attain obedience, and what it requires you to work on in order to achieve success on a consistent basis. How can Masters/ Dominants help motivate submissives/slaves, in order to having them succeed, even if small steps are required to navigate first? How can we help our s-types gain the trust required to do so. How can we avoid ways to set them up for failure, and, working together as a team, grow from small tasks to reaching a nearly reflexive expectation of obedience from both the Master/Dominant and the submissive/slave. We’ll also examine compliance versus obedience, expectations of obedience and what the consequences for missing the target should be, and how life’s challenges can become an obstacle to someone who feels compelled to obey but cannot muster the ability to do so.